How do i get my Scorpio to talk and be honest?

I became involved with a Scorpio who I’ve known since highschool. It wasn’t until we became adults that I was interested. He made it clear back in highschool that he loved me. One thing led to another we became intimate and then decided to enter into a rrelationship. I found out he was involved with his ex and spending time with another female. We said we would remain friends no matter what. But now he will not speak to me at all. We are both stubborn but he is more stubborn out of the two. He has made it clear he loves me but is mad at me. My questionnaire how do I get him to talk to me? I still love him very much. Ad wish we he would talk to me. And what do I do if he loves me and someone else?

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  1. What do Sean “Diddy” Combs, Leonardo DiCaprio, Joaquin Phoenix and Matthew McConaughey all have in common?

    They are “single” more often than not!

    Tying down a Scorpio male when he’s in his prime is next to impossible. If you play it too cool, you’ll get left in the cold. If you play it too warm, the flame will fizzle out faster than a match stick. You can’t be obvious, clingy, or desperate – or available all day every day because that reeks of weakness and ALL scorpio men love STRONG, CAPABLE, SMART, INDEPENDENT women.

    What people in the astro-know almost never talk about when it comes to my male counterparts is just how damn MOODY these boys can be. I say boys not to disparage or imply that they are immature – Scorpio men know how to TCB (their only real rivals in that area being Taurus and Cancer – in that order) – but simply because, well, they value their youth. It’s not something that I have seen or witnessed any of them taking for granted and they live their youth to the hilt! Nick Lachey, the Ryans (Gosling and Reynolds) and thanks to Camilla Alves, now Mat McCounaughey, APPEAR to be exceptions – they aren’t. It takes the right combination of special, intuitive chemistry that you, as the woman, would instantly KNOW with no doubts you had with this man to make him step back from his forever-party-boy, man-about-towness.

    So where is the advice? It’s this. Walk away. Just forget about him. The fact that you asked this question at all means it’s not the right time – for now. One thing ALL Scorpios suffer from is regrets. We can freeze you out, we can act like total Donkey-Kong sized asses but eventually, we ALWAYS regret our bad behavior and the people we’ve lost along the way because of it. Trust me. Personal experience.

    If you think you can wait him out, you’re in for a long and lonely time period. In this case, the old saying is true – If you love someone, set then free. If they’re for you, they come back.

    Hope this helps gurl. I feel your pain.

    • Yes this helped alot. It’s hard and it hurts like hell. But when we are meant to speak we will. Im not 100 percent right in this situation. So what I don’t get is why has he iced me out when he la wrong too???

  2. Dump him!

  3. The relationship has ended but I still need closure. And if all cards can be laid on the table in time maybe I can forgive. ;(

  4. Hello Carmen,

    A scorpio man is reflective-he will pick up the vibes you put out and act on them.

    When you told him you are ok with being friends despite him having cheated,he realized you are desperate for him and has been playing you since.You ended up giving him the power to use you when convenient for him(without meaning to).

    You are now his puppet and he is covering up his bad behavior by punishing you by not talking just so you feel its all your fault.

    There will be no closure,he will use you as long as you allow him to.He does not ‘love’ you all that much even if he says so because true love does not two-time.

    Get on with your life and do not associate yourself with people who have no integrity.

    Good luck.

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